Lifestyle Total Power Exchange or Nothing At All?

November 12, 2012, 12:01 pm

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Have you ever noticed those personal ads that say something like:

I want a 24/7 slave. Must be completely willing to obey all orders at all times.

Real slaves only. No fakes, part-timers, scene players, phoneys, fake slaves, wannabes, Your goal must be to please me with no thought for yourself and nothing else.

I am real. UB2!

And how they have the same ad running five years later, there account is active and they are still looking.

Even though there are bottoms advertising:

I am a real slave and masochist. I want a Lord and Master who will teach me true and total slavery. I will have no rights and ask for no pity or compassion. Train me and use me for your pleasure. Abuse me and hurt me. I will be nothing and you will grind me into the dust.

Your future worthless dog slave.

Ads like that run forever as well.

Why don’t they get together?

Because they are propounding what for most people is unlivable. And as long as they cling to these hopeless extremes of M/s lives they’ll stay single. And they seem willing to do so forever.

Is this a sane choice?

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Wanted: Slave With Low Self-Esteem

November 17, 2012, 6:37 am

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Profile by a master in central North Carolina:

Looking for worthless slaves to be used as fuckmeat and cum receptacles. Prefer naturally submissive, shy, quiet, unassuming, low self-esteem.

Not looking for relationship, scenes, etc., Just something to fuck and discard until the next time, without any regard as a person, like a mangy bitch dog.

If you are in this category and know this is what you deserve, let me know.

Age and physicality are not an issue. Just be totally submissive

Some women would say this is just a typical male.

Let’s be honest there are plenty of people who will find this exciting to read. To be brutally frank this sort of arrangement is probably the best some bottoms can hope for (or – perhaps – capable of).

But.

BDSM without the option of a safeword is a serious risk.

There’s no promise of safe sex. Is the risk of becoming HIV+ really worth it? Are you that desperate?

Someone who is looking for men and women with low self-esteem could very well be a predator, a sociopath.

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Y is for YKINMY (Female Led Alphabet)

March 23, 2013, 7:09 am

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YKINMY: Your Kink Is Not My Kink. When I first discovered the subculures of female domination I was surprised by the purists. The self-appointed Femdom police. From their buried places on blogs and forums these people (mostly men) ruled what was a what wasn’t real Femdom. Which dominant women were fakes because the woman didn’t match the hidden frustrates fantasies. You’d expect being a member of sexual minority would encourage acceptance. But people love to disapprove of others.

Elsewhere see Bill Ward: Female Domination Cover Art.

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Beautiful Merciless Woman

March 24, 2013, 9:18 am

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John Keats’ poem La Belle Dame sans Merci is famous. At least it was. Hard to call any poetry well known in this age.

O what can ail thee, knight-at-arms,
Alone and palely loitering?
The sedge has withered from the lake,
And no birds sing.

O what can ail thee, knight-at-arms,
So haggard and so woe-begone?
The squirrel’s granary is full,
And the harvest’s done.

I see a lily on thy brow,
With anguish moist and fever-dew,
And on thy cheeks a fading rose
Fast withereth too.

I met a lady in the meads,
Full beautiful—a faery’s child,
Her hair was long, her foot was light,
And her eyes were wild.

I made a garland for her head,
And bracelets too, and fragrant zone;
She looked at me as she did love,
And made sweet moan

I set her on my pacing steed,
And nothing else saw all day long,
For sidelong would she bend, and sing
A faery’s song.

She found me roots of relish sweet,
And honey wild, and manna-dew,
And sure in language strange she said—
‘I love thee true’.

She took me to her Elfin grot,
And there she wept and sighed full sore,
And there I shut her wild wild eyes
With kisses four.

And there she lullèd me asleep,
And there I dreamed—Ah! woe betide!—
The latest dream I ever dreamt
On the cold hill side.

I saw pale kings and princes too,
Pale warriors, death-pale were they all;
They cried—‘La Belle Dame sans Merci
Thee hath in thrall!’

I saw their starved lips in the gloam,
With horrid warning gapèd wide,
And I awoke and found me here,
On the cold hill’s side.

And this is why I sojourn here,
Alone and palely loitering,
Though the sedge is withered from the lake,
And no birds sing.

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Collars for Submissive Men

July 14, 2013, 5:38 am

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Slave Collars: Symbol of Power Exchange

(Suggestions on selecting collars. I don’t remember where I got this.)

Now, regarding collars my favorite is that kind of training collar that have those spikes that are intended to dig into the neck of the poor unfortunate dog. But I modify it heavily, as I don’t find the original design to be that conductive for Safe bdsm play. Consequently, I modify heavily: First of all, I remove the choking part. This makes the rest of the collar too small, so you will need additional links (eg by buying an additional collar and cannibalizing this for parts).

Secondly, I cut the choking part up to free the attachment for the leash. This is then put added to one of the spiked links.

Third, I turn the collar inside out in order to get the spikes on the outside. The resulting look is in my opinion rather stunning. By inserting and removing links, you can get it as tight or loose as you want it. Do experiment.

Now, from the choking part you can get a short piece of chain with a ring in the middle. This can form the center piece of another collar: Buy an additional length of plain chain with a ring at both ends. Cut this in two halves. Join the the resulting three pieces together with small key rings.

You wear this collar thus: Wrap it twice around the neck of the sub, and pass a very heavy padlock through all three rings. The reason for passing the padlock through all the rings is that you eliminate the possibility for a choking effect in this way.

A note on the padlock: get one of the kind that has the key-hole on the front face. I find these to be the most visually stimulating.

A note on plating:

You can get these things both nickel and chrome plated. Many people have problems wit nickel allergy, thus I alway buy mi toys chrome plated. You can distinguish the th two from each other by the look: the chrome plated kind is more reflective / luster (which is another good reason to buy this variety).

What do you think about women placing collars on the necks of their submissive men and male slaves?

Do you think it an attractive sign of a man’s status as the property of a woman?

A nice token of submission?

Ostentatious or tacky?

Too obvious? Too weird?

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Analingus Chairs

March 5, 2014, 11:59 am

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Many slave men and submissive males delight in being allowed for worship their Mistress’s buttocks. They want to spend hours in devotional analingus.

The vulnerability of the man’s neck is a serious concern. Care should be taken to locate a stool or chair that enables ass worship without danger to health.

Fetish vendors offer devices to ease analingus. But they may be beyond your ability to pay. If you have do-it-yourself skills a medical supply or used furniture store may give you the basics of personalized, comfortable for your Mistress to sit and you adore her.

If you’ve made your own analingus chair or stool please share the details.

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Femdom Ponyboy Training

March 19, 2014, 11:16 am

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A Femdom ponyboy’s first few weeks are the roughest. Mistress Trainers often have cause to discipline the new pony slave.

The equine trappings: artificial hooves, strapping, saddle, the bit on the mouth are strange. The human horse’s body will adapt. A year later it would feel incomplete if completely nude. Frequent employment of riding crops are needed to speed up this human to pony slave adaptation.

The human horse must learn to respond to how the reins are pulled. More training that is effectively expedited with corporal punishment. Spare the lash and ruin the pony the Mistress Trainers always say.

The most difficult phase of a human pony slave’s training is stamina and endurance. The most brutal whippings are required to teach the ponyboy that tiredness is not permitted, exhaustion is no excuse.

Because pony slaves require so many hard whippings the Mistress Trainers have mastered the art of leaving welts in patterns. When they heal the welts will form the human horse’s unique markings.

Completely docile at the end of training the pony boy is ready for the Mistress Riders who come to the ranch for relaxation. Being pulled in a cart by one or more ponyboys is a customer favorite.

When the pony slave’s vigor eventually diminishes the human animal is used to pull light carts and allowed to spend time relaxing in the pasture set aside for its kind. Very gentle people come to pet them and feed them treats.

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Male Slaves Trained by Robot Mistresses

March 24, 2014, 5:43 pm

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There are women who own men for purely utilitarian reasons. These Mistress Owners expect their slave males to function correctly and without fuss. They take no pleasure in punishing them. A slave inspires no more interest than a gear. It either fulfills its purpose or it doesn’t.

Robot Mistresses have been perfected to aid this kind of slave owner. New slaves are trained and disciplined by the cybernetic dominatrices. Every slave is subjected to the identical training. Once thoroughly trained the men function devoid of individuality.

Male slaves rarely – if ever – interact with a biological female.

The Robot Mistresses supervise the slave men. Any failure in fulfillment or purpose or error is met with immediate and precisely measured punishment. Repeated faulty behavior is results in an extensive and painful rehabilitation session.

All punishment is performed with electrified canes. These have found to be the most efficient tools for correcting male slaves.

Ultimately the constantly regulated and monitored slave men are little more human than their overseers.

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Male Slave’s Punishment Walk

March 26, 2014, 11:26 am

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Mistress Owner taking her human pet slave for a walk?

The male is a slave but not a pet.

The slave annoyed its Mistress Owner with carelessness. The slave is being taken for a punishment walk. Remaining on its knees it must crawl across a driveway make of cement, decorated with store and gravel.

By the time with knees bruised at bloody it is led back home the slave will be barely able to crawl. For the next couple of days it will be unable to walk. When restored to service the slave will be circumspect in all service to its Mistress Owner.

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Mistress Scarifying Her Male Slave

March 28, 2014, 9:36 am

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This is not a castration or penectomy image.

Mistress Owner is going to mark her male slave. The knife will cut into its penis. And other parts of its body. Mistress is going to mark the slave in the sense of scarifying it.

Scarification is giving the slave permanent marks. The Mistress Owner’s unique symbols will be permanently mark the slave man as her property.

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Male Slave With a Noose Around His Neck

April 3, 2014, 12:00 pm

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Why has this Mistress Owner put her male slave’s neck through a noose? Is she going to hang him?

No. Well, probably not.

In this female dominated society the noose is conventional wear for male slaves, especially when the slave is in bondage. The noose is a symbol: all of a male’s life that very life itself exists only at the pleasure of his Mistress Owner.

Some male slaves are actually hanged. Ineradicable insolence, continual disobedience eventually earns the ultimate punishment. Not a solution favored by the women who rule this world. No male will be allowed to disrupt the status quo. Life imprisonment is regarded as pointless.

The noose reminds the inferior sex that humility is mandatory.

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Hall of Male Slaves

April 4, 2014, 8:00 am

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Many unowned male slaves are put on display in the Hall of Slaves. Here women needing new slaves come to examine potential human property.

Lesser male slaves are bought to refresh the herds of labor slaves on the estates and farms of wealthy women. Others are bought and trained as cooks, gardeners, mechanics and etc. A lucky few become sex slaves. An unlucky few fodder for dungeons.

Women subject the displayed slaves for many qualities: beauty, genital size, physical strength, humility of demeanor. Lack of the last quality does not make a slave less desirable. The least docile seeming men are selected by sadistic women for their dungeons. Humbling these men is a pleasure. Their fates are total degradation and dehumanization.

The asking price for the male slaves are steadily lowered until sold. Even the poorest woman can afford a harem of servitors.

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Male Slaves Are Available For Inspection

June 16, 2014, 11:56 am

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Enslaved men are never slobs. Their dress must be impeccable. Their body clean, face shaved and hair combed. The male slave is subject to Mistress’ inspection at all times. She will punish him for being unkempt and sloppy.

Why would a male slave allow himself to dishonor his Mistress by not maintaining her standards?

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Y is for YKINMY (Female Led Alphabet)

November 16, 2014, 5:09 pm

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Elsewhere see Bill Ward: Female Domination Cover Art.

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What is a Femdomarchy?

April 21, 2015, 3:20 am

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Female Led Relationships

A few of you have been with me as I have created assorted Femdom projects over the last 12 – 15 years.

My new site is a somewhere between a recreation of this one and and evolution. As is normal for me, I carelessly blend pedestrian common sense with lyrical lies.

See if you can find anything to enjoy on:

Femdomarchy

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Wanted: Slave With Low Self-Esteem

May 3, 2015, 6:37 am

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Profile by a master in central North Carolina:

Looking for worthless slaves to be used as fuckmeat and cum receptacles. Prefer naturally submissive, shy, quiet, unassuming, low self-esteem.

Not looking for relationship, scenes, etc., Just something to fuck and discard until the next time, without any regard as a person, like a mangy bitch dog.

If you are in this category and know this is what you deserve, let me know.

Age and physicality are not an issue. Just be totally submissive

Some women would say this is just a typical male.

But.

BDSM without the option of a safeword is a serious risk.

There’s no promise of safe sex. Is the risk of becoming HIV+ really worth it? Are you that desperate?

Someone who is looking for men and women with low self-esteem could very well be a predator, a sociopath.

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Mistress Scarifying Her Male Slave

March 28, 2014, 9:36 am

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This is not a castration or penectomy image.

Mistress Owner is going to mark her male slave. The knife will cut into its penis. And other parts of its body. Mistress is going to mark the slave in the sense of scarifying it.

Scarification is giving the slave permanent marks. The Mistress Owner’s unique symbols will be permanently mark the slave man as her property.

Mistress Scarifying Her Male Slave,
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Male Slave’s Punishment Walk

March 26, 2014, 11:26 am

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Mistress Owner taking her human pet slave for a walk?

The male is a slave but not a pet.

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Mistress Scarifying Her Male Slave

July 1, 2017, 3:36 am

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This is not a castration or penectomy image.

Mistress Owner is going to mark her male slave. The knife will cut into its penis. And other parts of its body. Mistress is going to mark the slave in the sense of scarifying it.

Scarification is giving the slave permanent marks. The Mistress Owner’s unique symbols will be permanently mark the slave man as her property.

Mistress Scarifying Her Male Slave,
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